Put her in the faux stocks like you described with the rope and work with her there. She has to have the mind set of notfighting in order to learn. Eventually, you won't need to put her in that position, she'll have accepted it. Also, work with a towel. Rub her face, run the towel over her mouth so fast, she can't react. Stay at her shoulder no matter what she does. She'll get sick of reacting for no reason.