Yup, I realize and agree. Exactly. I don't know what it's like in the states, but in Canada, BC at least, you get decent government compensation for being a single mother, per kid I believe. I know a girl who, both she and her mother, are on welfare, the daughter has 3 kids now. First one was an oops, second one, different father, she basically tricked him into getting her knocked up, third one, she got knocked up with VERY quickly after having the third, by yet another guy. She has no relationship with the first two guys, doesn't work, has two horses that she jumps barn to barn with because quickly a few months in she stops paying for board and their care and gets kicked out. Now freeloads off of the third dad, who, if I'm being honest, is an odd guy himself and is probably happy to have a woman and a kid, so he lets her walk all over him. People like her are the problem.