My live-in boyfriends father passed two nights ago. That morning, my bf went to be with his family, understandably. Since then, he indicated that he doesn't want me to be with him or his family during this time. I understand he is going through probably the hardest day of his life to date. But i cannot help but feel so, so hurt. Ive texted and offered support, but his replies are minimal and he won't call at all. It's been two days, and I havent heard from him at all today. I am sort of beside myself. We have been together for a year. We have a good relationship. Can anyone offer me advice, words of encouragement, anything? I know he's so heartbroken, and I don't want to be selfish and push him for reasons or answers, but I can't help but feel heartbroken as well. I don't want to stress him more. But I don't know what I should or shouldn't do. If anything. He's made it clear he wants to be alone with his family. I guess I just assumed that I was the closest person to him, and he would want my support or presence. But he wants everyone else present.