You guys, no sense conversing. She is around 40, just got her VERY first horse in 08. Since, she has been working with a natural horsemanship trainer, so, in her mind, that is all she needs, evidently. No sense bothering. Yes, this should be in blogs. When you post to horse training it is a given that you seek advice. Please do as Ginster says: send a pm (conversartion) to a mod and get it moved. We tend to ignore those threads.