I read my ex's blog.

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  1. Dona Worry

    Dona Worry Senior Member

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    Omg, a 'Dear John' letter.
    You handled it better than I did. Aforementioned ex Bob was stalking me online post breakup, and drunk dialing me in the middle of the night. He didn't realize I knew he was stalking me.
    Now, this is where my cruel streak reared its ugly head....
    At the time, I was a member of a really big, active board. Over a hundred really active, daily members, dozens more casual ones. Mostly middle aged conservative white ladies.
    I had been a member for eight years at the time, and was well known and almost universally adored. I was 21 years old, and at least a decade or two younger than anyone else.
    And this is where my ex thought it would be a good place to stalk me.
    I did not let on to anyone I knew he was there. The board knew the whole story, and had held my hand post breakup, and were generally feeling a bit protective of me.
    So I started a thread. I titled it something self-pitying, and let loose. My ex was stalking me! I was having such a horrible week! Why is he doing this, he is 33 years old, he should be able to handle a girl breaking up with him, I am so mad, tired, etc.
    And then I stepped back and watched the fireworks, knowing full well he was reading every. Single. Word.
    The thread had dozens of replies within and hour, hundreds within a day. Absolutely viscous attacks, demeaning hid mental state, erm, 'size', family attachments, everything. I would occasionally pop in to 'defend' him, but there was no stemming the tide.

    It was calculated. It was cruel. It wss a deliberate attack on a sad and lonely alcoholic struggling to come to terms with a recent breakup.

    And he never called me again, so I say it was effective.
     
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    RelaxMax Senior Member

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    Lord. Bro. You're a handful, I love it.
     
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    Dona Worry Senior Member

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    DON'T CALL ME AT THREE AM DRUNK.
     
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    RelaxMax Senior Member

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    I'm calling u now and it's 8 pm and I'm drunk :(((

    I can't help they put a market across from my house this week and ARE SELLING 1 DOLLAR PBR TALLBOYS??
     
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    bellalou Senior Member

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    No problem. I'll call you at 3 am sober. ;) :p
     
  7. StarPattern

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    Quite honestly, they were his friends before they were ever my friends, so I don't talk to them anymore either. I have a hunch they only talked to me after the fact to get a read on me and report back to the ex. I don't know if they believed everything that was said or not, but I don't lose sleep over it. haha.
     
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    No matter how many times I asked him to tone down the drinking, he always insisted it wasn't a problem and that I caused him to be angry all the time. So I don't think he quit drinking... I just think he found someone to drink with him, or he just doesn't feel the need to be rude to her. Either way, I hope they continue to be happy. Him being happy in another relationship means he won't try to bother me and I don't have to watch my boyfriend give him a black eye for bothering me. Win-win!
     
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    TallOak10 Full Member

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    Love the narcissist's prayer. Perfect. I'd report to have removed. That's some really personal info he's put out there, true or not.
     

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