Baby cows for Nu5ha.

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  1. slc

    slc Senior Member

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    Sometimes people just don't want to talk about certain things, that's their way of coping. And I think if she came back, quite a few people would insist that she 'owed' them an 'explanation.' That might make coming back awful hard on her.
     
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  2. Dona Worry

    Dona Worry Senior Member

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    I like to think that we are all adults here, and that being told a subject is sore and to be avoided would not be met with any ill will.
    I would also hope that concern would not be misconstrued as demanding an explanation either.
     
  3. ginster

    ginster Senior Member

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    Of course she doesn 't owe us an explanation.
    I've said it before: we will welcome her back with open arms. I fully understand if she doesn't want to or simply can't talk about what happened.
    Anyone who demands anything can go **** themselves imo.
     
  4. Arem

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    I don’t think anyone here would do anything of the kind. I also don’t think anyone here feels their owed anything. We just care. People are allowed to care. Wondering what happened and wishing she’d come back doesn’t mean we’d demand anything or feel we are owed anything. It just means we care.
     
  5. slc

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    It doesn't matter how we feel, it matters how she feels....and I am very sure that a lot of people, yes, even here, would want to know what happened, if they wouldn't say 'you owe us', they'd say 'because we care.' A lot of people have shown a very strong curiosity about 'what happened,' to the point of finding her instragrams, examining her photos, etc. Don't kid yourself. Many people in those situations insist they have a 'right to know' or that 'you'll feel better if you tell us.'
     
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    Arem Senior Member

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    Wondering what happened isn’t wrong.
    I know you like to think that you’re the only good person with good intentions and motives out there, but you aren’t. And a lot of the time? Just minding your own business and leaving people alone? Is the WRONG thing to do. Care enough about people to ask after them. Sure, the occasional person might not like it, but, hey. That’s on them. Keep being a friend to people anyway.
     
  7. Dona Worry

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    "Oh my goodness, there you are, we've been so worried! What happened??"
    "Actually, it's still very raw, I'd rather not talk about it."
    "Oh, ok, that's fair. We're glad to see you back!"

    Done.
    No drama.
    Just cute baby calf pictures.
     
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    It's funny that SLC is the one worried about drama. :whistle:

    The rest of us just want to know if she is ok.
     
  9. Dona Worry

    Dona Worry Senior Member

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    Nuuuu5ha, more cuteness to (hopefully someday) make you smile!
    Litigate, aka Pink Boots, my own little derp baby.
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    Bauble!
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    Miracle Zim!
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    Buddy, Bauble coming to say hi, and Lily.
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    Whats a Derp baby?
    And does Zims mother know she went and got her ear pierced? ;)
     

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